Preparing the Nest
Hank, my 10-month-old grand-dog Golden Retriever, made an intriguing discovery during a recent visit to our home. He stood at the front window, barking incessantly at a little bird traveling back and forth from the front door to a nearby tree, as though this feathered friend was taunting him to play. Upon closer observation, I realized that this mama bird was too focused for trivial games; she was engaged in something of far greater significance
As I watched, I discovered she was preparing a nest in my front door wreath. Tirelessly, she gathered twigs to form the base of her haven—a strong foundation that would keep her fragile eggs secure. The twigs became the framework of the nest, layered and lined with care using leaves, cotton remnants, and other soft materials. This thoughtful arrangement ensured that her young would not only be protected but also comfortable.
How incredibly wise and intentional of this mama bird to choose a location under my covered front porch, far away from predators, and to construct a nest designed to provide a welcoming, soft landing for her babies!
I felt so humbled that she found our front door worthy of being her safe place. It got me reflecting on the measures I take to prepare my own home for my family. Am I creating a sanctuary free from danger? While not from physical predators, do I protect against nagging words or negative attitudes? Is my home comfortable and welcoming, filled with delightful smells—whether from candles or freshly baked cookies? Do I manage our household with intention, creating a shielded space for my family to retreat from the demands of the day? Is it a place where they feel truly cared for and celebrated?
I am thankful for this wise mama bird for reminding me to prepare my own nest with heart and loving intent.
Over the years, I have found some habits that I think contribute to making our home a happy place of joy and refuge for my family.
Be authentic in relationships: Encouraging honest and open conversations. I have always wanted my kids to know that there is no subject that we cannot discuss together, no matter how difficult or seemingly embarrassing it may be.
Create Family Experiences: Whether it’s family game nights, weekend outings, or holiday rituals, traditions can provide a sense of belonging and joy.
Invest in Family: Setting aside dedicated time to spend together as a family, free from distractions like phones or TV, fosters connection and creates cherished memories. Different seasons in life made this tricky, but with intentional planning, at least 2-3 times a week we committed to make this happen.
Intentional Kindness: Small, thoughtful gestures, like leaving a note of encouragement or making someone’s favorite meal, can make everyone feel appreciated.
Emphasizing Thankfulness: Practicing gratitude as a family can help cultivate a positive atmosphere. This could be as simple as sharing what you’re thankful for during meals.
Admit Wrong: Be willing to admit and apologize when wrong. I refer to these as my “loser mom moments”.
Curious, what habits do you nurture in your household?
